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Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 2:06 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
Nano wrote:
If you have a positive outlook on life, you will care better for yourself and your surroundings. If you a depressed, then you will neglect yourself and your surroundings. Seems pretty clear which one is better.
I think we were talking about pessimists not depressives, (although there is probably a neurological link). I think one might follow the other but not necessarily vice versa. I think depressives might be pessimistic, but that pessimists might not be depressives.
I think of pessimism in terms of not having rose coloured glasses. I still see and focus on the bright side of everything. I th ink its more like being a realist. If being an optomist is not a realist... then it ain't for me.
But many would think I am pessimistic. I see the future as one that will be radically different (darker, some might say) but I see it as coming out of an illusion we were stupid enough to buy into... but I have never shied away from hard work. I think of this as an opporunity to create a new reality for many of us, and a natural progression of life.
But maybe some of us are just wired differently, and for us this is the way we are supposed to be, and our lives are long jsut casue we are being true to ourselves, no matter what that means.
BEsides if a good positive attitude makes you live longer, why aren't all the old people running around happy?
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Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 8:30 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
[quote="uNkNowN ElEmEnt]Besides if a good positive attitude makes you live longer, why aren't all the old people running around happy?[/quote]
Excellent point. I have observed this many times.
I come from a branch of Pennsylvania Dutch-Germans, easily among the gloomiest people on Earth. Most of her adult life, my paternal grandmother was always talking about death, particularly her own impending one. She lived to be 96. Her husband was an antisocial crabapple; I think I saw him smile exactly once. He lived to be 94. Both were traumatized by the Depression, which left them depressed themselves, and negative in outlook, for the rest of their lives.
My own parents have already survived into their early 80s despite being extremely negative, antisocial, psychologically scarred people. My dad has had PTSD, a disease process that is a veritable fount of negativity and antisociality, since being traumatized by his experiences as a soldier during WWII. My mother was severely abused as a child and adolescent and has spent a lifetime feeling bitter and nursing her wounds.
These are only anecdotes, but similar ones abound!
I think that longevity is mostly a matter of genetics, and a heap of evidence supports that.
No one argues that a positive outlook on life FEELS better. It's definitely the way to go. But whether it produces per se a significant increase in lifespan seems doubtful to me.
Even regular physical exercise extends the average lifespan by only 2 years or so. _________________ "Actually, humans died out long ago."
---Abused, abandoned hunting dog
"Things have entered a stage where the only change that is possible is for things to get worse."
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Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 11:02 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
Heineken wrote:
A doomer is someone who believes that the future will be darker than today. How deep the darkness goes varies from doomer to doomer. Most believe there will be a large and perhaps rapid drop in the human population that will bring it down to the level of the natural carrying capacity (natural carrying capacity having been artificially and temporarily expanded by the cheap energy liberated by burning fossil fuels). Most also believe that a range of economic and environmental disasters are fairly imminent. Very few---probably none---believe that all life will disappear from Earth. We aren't crackpots, although that is the common public perception.
Doomers believe either (1) that no matter what we do today, we cannot avoid these calamities or (2) that we could avoid these calamities if we acted now, but that we aren't going to act now or ever, so the calamities are coming anyway.
A doomer's beliefs are usually based on evidence, not personality flaws.
Okay, well then there you have it -- the basis for our earlier mis-communications....i.e. I am a doomer, too.
I thought a doomer meant someone who believed that on a PERSONAL level there was nothing he/she could do to prepare for the coming changes.
I think the main difference in our perspectives is that I don't see all of this taking the world to an altogether darker place ... I see it taking the world to a better place in many ways. Gluttonous consumerism and rank materialism and 'having to have' non-essentials and Gucci bags and toys that run on batteries, etc ... in a couple of generations those will be things of ancient history.
However, between now through the period of darkness and through to the other side, I can make a case in my own mind for which age & lifestyle groups will be hit the hardest ... and would be glad to post that if you are interested.
But of greater concern to me is what I believe will be an increasing movement toward centralization -- people turning toward the government to save us from that incredible new world. Those who do will be ripe for the picking, sort of like when Hitler capitalized on the miseries of the German people after WWI, and was able to make himself into their supreme power in very little time.
That's why I feel such an urgent mandate to do what I can on a local (like at home!) basis to be able to create a place where my family can survive. Basics - food, shelter. And that's why I believe so strongly in relocalization - because it needs to be the small surrounding community that becomes central to our lives.
So, my friend, I don't see you as personality disordered, or a crackpot. _________________ Dean Karnazes : "Run when you can, walk when you have to, crawl if you must; just never give up." --- Jackie Joyner-Kersee: "It is better to look forward & prepare, than to look back & regret."
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Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 11:14 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
Some doomers do react personally in a negative way (the most extreme example of such a reaction being suicide, which I'm sure has happened, alas). Others do everything they can to prepare for a difficult future (even while suspecting that such preparations may be futile). And do what they can, locally, to try to ameliorate the damage our species is wreaking.
Anyway, I think you've come to the right place, Lumpy. We've had many, many threads that examine from every possible angle the issues you're raising here. Explore! And welcome to PO.com. Sorry again if you and I got off on the wrong foot. My fault entirely. _________________ "Actually, humans died out long ago."
---Abused, abandoned hunting dog
"Things have entered a stage where the only change that is possible is for things to get worse."
---Me and my brother
Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 8:04 pm Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
When I veer Doomer, time crawls, when I drift toward the Tickletush opposite pole, time screams past. I think perceived time is about equal for both roles, but the Tickletush gets more calendar time and is most probably blissfully unaware anyhow.
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Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 2:43 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
Heineken wrote:
Excellent point. I have observed this many times.
I come from a branch of Pennsylvania Dutch-Germans, easily among the gloomiest people on Earth. Most of her adult life, my paternal grandmother was always talking about death, particularly her own impending one. She lived to be 96. Her husband was an antisocial crabapple; I think I saw him smile exactly once. He lived to be 94. Both were traumatized by the Depression, which left them depressed themselves, and negative in outlook, for the rest of their lives.
My own parents have already survived into their early 80s despite being extremely negative, antisocial, psychologically scarred people. My dad has had PTSD, a disease process that is a veritable fount of negativity and antisociality, since being traumatized by his experiences as a soldier during WWII. My mother was severely abused as a child and adolescent and has spent a lifetime feeling bitter and nursing her wounds.
These are only anecdotes, but similar ones abound!
I think that longevity is mostly a matter of genetics, and a heap of evidence supports that.
No one argues that a positive outlook on life FEELS better. It's definitely the way to go. But whether it produces per se a significant increase in lifespan seems doubtful to me.
Well, being bitter is better than being depressed & self-pitying. There is a certain energy & vigor that comes from righteous anger (more so than from resignation).
Heineken wrote:
Even regular physical exercise extends the average lifespan by only 2 years or so.
Even supposing, still probably the last decade are so are much healthier (and w/ less pain). _________________ My PO Amazon store (shameless plug).
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Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 11:38 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
Narz wrote:
Well, being bitter is better than being depressed & self-pitying. There is a certain energy & vigor that comes from righteous anger (more so than from resignation).
Couldn't agree less with you this time, Narz -- but maybe it's a matter of semantics.
Righteous anger and bitterness are NOT the same things.
Bitterness, depression and wallowing in self-pity have the same outcomes -- i.e. self-destruction, no growth, even the destruction of those around you.
Righteous anger, now that is an important and useful (and very different) tool -- as you have indicated. With that I DO agree.
Lumpy _________________ Dean Karnazes : "Run when you can, walk when you have to, crawl if you must; just never give up." --- Jackie Joyner-Kersee: "It is better to look forward & prepare, than to look back & regret."
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Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2007 11:45 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
I've found righteous anger useful only to the point that it's actually possible to make a change. If you're powerless to do so regardless of your energy level, the anger only serves to hurt you rather than provide needed energy. Often surrender is the better path. Be like water.
Serenity now! Serenity now! _________________ "Every junkie's like a setting sun..." - Neil Young
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 2:27 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
I always thought that when you were infused with righteous anger, it was the acid flowing through peoples systems that would keep them alive longer by killing off any potential invading bacteria.
Hence, my view that it is active and not passive types who live longer. You can be an active pessimist, or active angry type. but the passive positive people or passive bitter people who kick the bucket.
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 12:14 pm Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
uNkNowN ElEmEnt wrote:
Hence, my view that it is active and not passive types who live longer. You can be an active pessimist, or active angry type. but the passive positive people or passive bitter people who kick the bucket.
Well, I don't know about your 'acid flowing through' idea, but presuming that was metaphor, I would have to agree with you.
Being pro-active seems to me to be the best way to get things done, AND to feel better (less helpless!) about life and one's place in it, AND to live better - and possibly longer as well.
However, I get myself into to trouble often with this attitude - because often people I work with, for example, would prefer status quo to doing the work required to improve a situation. (This goes for the co-workers and the patients as well, actually. Often there will be someone from each group who is mad at me because I am working toward change -- and they don't want to work at all!)
I don't deal well with laziness in thought or behavior. GRRRRRRRRR.
Lumpy _________________ Dean Karnazes : "Run when you can, walk when you have to, crawl if you must; just never give up." --- Jackie Joyner-Kersee: "It is better to look forward & prepare, than to look back & regret."
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 8:58 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
Lumpy wrote:
Well, I don't know about your 'acid flowing through' idea, but presuming that was metaphor, I would have to agree with you.
Being pro-active seems to me to be the best way to get things done, AND to feel better (less helpless!) about life and one's place in it, AND to live better - and possibly longer as well.
However, I get myself into to trouble often with this attitude - because often people I work with, for example, would prefer status quo to doing the work required to improve a situation. (This goes for the co-workers and the patients as well, actually. Often there will be someone from each group who is mad at me because I am working toward change -- and they don't want to work at all!)
I don't deal well with laziness in thought or behavior. GRRRRRRRRR.
Lumpy
LOL! I know the feeling! Its amazing. I almost think it has to do with peoples thresholds. First off most of us are overwhelmed by life and society and all the info bombarding us. Then so many of us are culturally programmed to make drama in our personal lives so as to make themselves seem more important. (Its an attention seeking thing I think)
To surivive the crisis situations they are creating, they need for one area in their lives to remain the same, so they choose work. They need for it to be static and plodding, and its just insane.
But I think whether you are pessimist or optomist or any of the many shades inbetween the key is the person who continually looks for hope. I think hope is what makes the difference. If a person has no hope, they will die. If they have faith they will find hope at the end of the tunnel, they have a much better chance of surviving.
and that is what this is all about. surviving. Its a survival thing. those with hope will stay flexible and make plans even if those plans constantly need to change. its those who have to stay entrenched in ideas, a way of life or certain dogmas who will struggle and fight against change the most.
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Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 2:15 pm Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
uNkNowN ElEmEnt wrote:
But I think whether you are pessimist or optomist or any of the many shades inbetween the key is the person who continually looks for hope. I think hope is what makes the difference. If a person has no hope, they will die. If they have faith they will find hope at the end of the tunnel, they have a much better chance of surviving.
and that is what this is all about. surviving. Its a survival thing. those with hope will stay flexible and make plans even if those plans constantly need to change. its those who have to stay entrenched in ideas, a way of life or certain dogmas who will struggle and fight against change the most.
Wow, and to think that a week or so ago on this very thread it seemed that we were at great odds with one another!
You are SO RIGHT about hope - faith, et al.
I am going to save the paragraphs you wrote (above). Great stuff.
Thanks!
Lumpy _________________ Dean Karnazes : "Run when you can, walk when you have to, crawl if you must; just never give up." --- Jackie Joyner-Kersee: "It is better to look forward & prepare, than to look back & regret."
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 9:28 am Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
I've seen a lot of people on the edge. I've seen all manner of things people do to others. And mostly I've seen people floundering for something of meaning in their lives after it had been ripped apart. (I've needed to do the same thing at times too)
I think we've gone astray in society and to a much smaller extent we are all looking for something for our lives to be about. We've been programmed by TV and religion to think that our lives are supposed to have some grand design and meaning.
Which is extrememly sad because I think we overlook the only things that could make any meaning in our lives. I think we become ungrounded and washed away in the oil slick of society. We are all going to be rediscovering these things as the crash/peak oil/ or what ever other disaster happens, happens.
I think might be one of the things that we reclaim and what does bind us together here on peak oil (as much as that is possible for such totally different groups all over the world, with different beliefs and cultures, and ideologies).
In a sad way its going to be the greatest experiment of adaptive behaviours ever seen. I am going to be watching/experiencing with fascination, let me tell you.
Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 2:49 pm Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
Seems like the terms passive, rather than pessimistic, and pro-active, rather than optimistic would be better descriptors.
According to the nun study I looked at several years ago, there should be plenty of "happy" little cabbages with Alzheimer's, as well as gloomy Gusses. It's not so much what you feel as how you think, that determines whether this illness manifests in it's most devastating form. Autopsies of elderly nuns showed that there was almost as much damage, (amyloid plaques and neurofibbrilary tangles) in the brains of apparently unaffected nuns, as those with severe Alzheimers. The conclusions some scientists came to, after reading the correspondences of these nuns, from their childhood into adulthood, was that those at highest risk for experiencing negative impact from the disease were the nuns who were mundane thinkers. The scientists seemed to think that those who simply thought a lot, and as a kind of hobby, had brains that were able to think around the areas of damage.
Clinical depression, in that it may rob the person of the ability or motivation to think as a kind of recreational activity, or as a purpose for being, could, in this case, be an earmark of later development of the kind of state of being we think of as Alzheimerish. In fact, we may ALL have it, to some degree in extreme old age, particularly after the age of 80.
People who lack the sensation of and philosophy of hope are at higher risk of accident causing death, alcoholism, etc...
It would seem purely on an intuitive level, if the immune system is somehow connected to the mind, that true despair (not just negativity) is as active a killer as any viral or bacterial toxin.
How best can others deal with this kind of black hole of being? Can a person be helped by others, or can a change of world conditions and events, outer circumstances change the mind set of this kind of person? That is a big "maybe", isn't it? It's probably best to avoid prejudging using the "proving ground" of our own personal experiences.
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 6:38 pm Post subject: Re: Non-doomers live longer - Research-based evidence
threadbear wrote:
How best can others deal with this kind of black hole of being? Can a person be helped by others, or can a change of world conditions and events, outer circumstances change the mind set of this kind of person? That is a big "maybe", isn't it? It's probably best to avoid prejudging using the "proving ground" of our own personal experiences.
I don't think a person can be helped by others. Especially if we are talking about clinical depression. The person who is afflicted needs to take a proactive approach to the options out there. In most cases they can't just use one magic bullet. they need to advocate for themselves and do all the things they think might help.
This is best judged by the person involved and using their own personal experiences as it relates to their state of mind and what works as opposed to what doesn't work is critical.
For anything I choose using personal experiences over most other forms of advice. A doctor can give you any number of medications, but you will be the judge of which one is best for you.
There are any number of "experts" who will tell you what to do or how to do it in life, But until you trust yourself and your own judgement you will never be able to reach your own full potential for anything in life.
Look at Cognitive Behaviour Therapy... for instance. The NUMBER ONE therapy used for depression. Its main focus is substantiating y our own personal view of the world inside and out. If you don't trust yourself and your own judgement and have to look to others you will never find mental health or happiness or most anything else.
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