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Death, how do you feel about it?
Scaces the hell out of me
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It's inevitable, but some fear
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No fear, believe in after life
20%
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No fear, why worry about what you can't control?
28%
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Looking forward to it, life sucks
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 4:35 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

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The thought of hell is far more terrifying than the thought of simply not existing, isnt it?


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The idea that the universe is run by that kind of a sadistic f___ker is beyond my ability to seriously contemplate.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 4:55 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

It's difficult for me to imagine what part of "me"would survive after death. Not my mind, which is a function of the chemical and electrical signals in my brain, not my personality, an aspect of my mind formed in part by my upbringing.

This I guess goes to that old question "what is the soul?"

I can imagine the components of my body going on to foster new life. And of course in this sense there's no complete death, as many of the bacteria that make up so much of our bodies will continue after "we" die (with disgusting results). But decay may lead to new life. We all have little bits of various dead people in us - do they live on that way?



"My death will be the life of another, Jared - I swear that to you. And you watch, you come find me, because I'll be standing again in these grasses and you'll see me looking through the eyes of the fox and taking the air with the eagle and running in the tracks of the deer."

- from "The Story of B" by Daniel Quinn
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 6:54 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

smallpoxgirl wrote:
threadbear wrote:
When we believe life ends with death, it deadens something in us. We interpret other perspectives as fantasy propelled foolishness.


I would love to believe. I try...sometimes harder than others...ultimately I just end up feeling that I'm kidding myself. I feel like I'm making up this story because I don't want to deal with the finality of death.


To Ludi and SPG both--I felt the same way, SPG. Then it dawned on me that disqualifying all evidence that seemed to point to the contrary, due to the fact that I desired it be true wasn't logically rigorous either. I then simply applied the same criteria to this subject that I do to others. It didn't mean I did a flip flop and "believed" the alternative point of view, I simply allowed myself to be exposed to the other point of view and became fairly efficient at separating reasoned argument from debunking.

Ludi, The worst thing for me, when I was younger, was imagining that I and those close to me would never have a better shot at happiness, or normalcy in their lives than the one shot here. My sister, like your's has a severe mental illness, schizophrenia, and her life has been a vast stretch of mild paranoia punctuated with moments of true misery.

It seemed that there had to be a deeper meaning, a deeper purpose and some kind of organizational system beneath this misery. Life seems unfair, but my own intuition tells me, my sister is picking up credits in this particular system that are a net benefit for us all, and she will have her day. One day, perhaps in another life, or another time or realm, this poor broken person will walk the streets, a radiant being, spreading the fruit of her accumulated agony in this life.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 7:15 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

smallpoxgirl wrote:
Ludi wrote:
The thought of hell is far more terrifying than the thought of simply not existing, isnt it?


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The idea that the universe is run by that kind of a sadistic f___ker is beyond my ability to seriously contemplate.

There is a strain of Christian belief which holds that "hell" is non-existence.

I think it has the best arguments...

you know, if one accepts the Christian perspective to begin with.

Annihilationism

Concerning if the impulse toward believing in an afterlife is just positive self talk:

Just because news is good, does not mean that it is false. One of the objective observations that I find... interesting... are the times a resident in a nursing home (my bride works in a nursing home) experience the supernatural.

The best story my wife has of an old man who my wife knew. He was of sound mind and not suffering from any form of clinical mental degradation. One day, out of no where and for the first time, he spoke of a being, an angel that came to him but, he reported that he told the being, "my birthday is next week and everyone will be there. I'll go after my birthday!"

He died (suddenly) the day after his birthday.

Sure there are all kinds of tricks of the mind that might explain the experience but it then seems that those who push those theories a little too hard are just as guilty of wishing an afterlife away as many people are of wishing that one is there to deal with their own fear of death.

We are all subjective and might just as easily be wishing evidence away as wishing evidence into existence. Those trained in the sciences are, perhaps, more inclined to wish evidence outside of a scientific materialist away. Fervent believers are, perhaps, more likely to be guilty of "trying a little too hard" to find evidence of an afterlife.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 8:05 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

wisconsin_cur wrote:

We are all subjective and might just as easily be wishing evidence away as wishing evidence into existence.


I agree. There are so many truly unexplained events in life.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 8:06 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

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One day, perhaps in another life, or another time or realm, this poor broken person will walk the streets, a radiant being, spreading the fruit of her accumulated agony in this life.


I like to believe that too.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 8:32 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

Fast forward to 2 minutes in:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=4022279686243103833

Also some of yall might find it interesting at 32 minutes in
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 8:44 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

Thus far, everyone has considered human death alone. Of course, that’s the one of most interest to all of us. But consider that there are thousands of species of living creatures, a number of which are not so far genetically removed from the human race. Who could deny that a large number of these are sentient beings? What of their death? Do they have the prospect of an eternal life or some other such variant? Or is the ‘promise’ of an afterlife, exclusive to those humans who have followed some specific belief, life path and behavioural characteristics? Is there a ‘top ten’ list of sentient beings whose soul, spirit, ectoplasm or whatever you want to call it, lives in a transformative state for ever? We seem to have no difficulty in accepting that an animal death is just that – was alive, now dead. Are humans god’s exceptions, a triumph of creation, or simply an evolved set of animal genes with an extra helical twist or two?

An ancillary thought. You are in the body you have. How come you are not in someone else’s or, god forbid(!), your pet dog’s? Of course, you can never know, but it’s interesting to think about.

Perhaps in good time, all will be revealed. Or not.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:00 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

lper100km wrote:
Thus far, everyone has considered human death alone. Of course, that’s the one of most interest to all of us. But consider that there are thousands of species of living creatures, a number of which are not so far genetically removed from the human race. Who could deny that a large number of these are sentient beings? What of their death? Do they have the prospect of an eternal life or some other such variant? Or is the ‘promise’ of an afterlife, exclusive to those humans who have followed some specific belief, life path and behavioural characteristics? Is there a ‘top ten’ list of sentient beings whose soul, spirit, ectoplasm or whatever you want to call it, lives in a transformative state for ever? We seem to have no difficulty in accepting that an animal death is just that – was alive, now dead. Are humans god’s exceptions, a triumph of creation, or simply an evolved set of animal genes with an extra helical twist or two?

An ancillary thought. You are in the body you have. How come you are not in someone else’s or, god forbid(!), your pet dog’s? Of course, you can never know, but it’s interesting to think about.

Perhaps in good time, all will be revealed. Or not.

It will. We're here based on on how we did in a previous life. How we do in this life will determine our next life assignment. Smile
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:24 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

lper100km wrote:
Thus far, everyone has considered human death alone.


One of my fantasies about afterlife is that I will be with all my dogs doing something cool.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:36 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

smallpoxgirl wrote:
threadbear wrote:
When we believe life ends with death, it deadens something in us. We interpret other perspectives as fantasy propelled foolishness.


I would love to believe. I try...sometimes harder than others...ultimately I just end up feeling that I'm kidding myself. I feel like I'm making up this story because I don't want to deal with the finality of death.


I find that reminding myself to be grateful for ever having lived is a good way to get out of the mortality funk.

It's all a matter of what you compare it to. A small house is a shack compared to a palace. A small house is a palace compared to a tent.

Losing a loved one and having the opportunity to spend time with the body is a tremendously enlightening experience. It's hard to capture in words, but it's as amazing as watching a baby being born.

We hold on too tight. To our stuff, to our loved ones, and to ourselves. If we practiced letting go and loosening the grip more, I think life would be better for a lot of people.

Fear of death has a way of keeping one from enjoying life. When I'm really in the moment and having fun, I couldn't care less about death.

Cultivating a healthy respect for death (but not fear) can translate into a cautious and deliberate way of living that has a way of keeping death at a distance. I've seen people who didn't respect death and some of them died in really sad and preventable ways.

The death of a really old person who was in pretty good health until the end can actually be sort of inspiring. I spoke at my grandmother's funeral a few years ago. She was 92 when she died. What I basically said was "May we all be as lucky as her. A long happy life with people who love you around until the very end is about as much as a person could ask for."
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 11:05 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

mmasters wrote:
How we do in this life will determine our next life assignment. Smile


Hmmm....if that's true, there may be a population explosion of banana slugs in the near future.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 11:06 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

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Tell you what, then: Build a spirit trap, catch one & let me photograph, weigh, measure, & dissect it. Then I'll believe they exist.


You are going to try and see, photograph, weigh, ect. the spirit soul with material instruments? The soul is spiritual in nature, that is why it can't be destroyed by anything material. Conciousness is the symptom of the soul. When the soul leaves the body, no more conciousness. But otherwise the rest of the chemicals are still there. A material body without the soul is not very attractive. The reason that people are always searching for ways to stay young is because the soul is forever young. Even in this life the body changes many times but you, the soul remains the same. False ego means you think you are the body, real ego is understanding you are spirit soul.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 11:14 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

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I'm fine with death as long as its as painless as possible.

I'd like it if those people close to me wouldn't be so terribly upset by it.

It depends how it happens I suppose.


you'd better be careful Grifter, those people close to you might be so upset to see you go that they may decide to keep you alive at all costs.

.... perhaps you should make a living will

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 3:53 pm    Post subject: Re: Death, how do you feel about it? Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

I just noticed one question that hasn't been touched.

Why do you think we have death in the world?

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