I didn't go to college, in fact if high school hadn't been easy I probably wouldn't have finished it.
It's interesting, out here in suburbia, it is considered part of the "package" so to speak, that your kid goes to college, particularly if you went to college.... I am speaking now as the adult parental unit of one of the young people.... it's not so much a reflection on the kid as it is the parent, and it is not at all unheard of for the parents to go to great lengths to get their kid through high school and even college by doing their homework for them, getting expensive tutors for them, and bailing them out of jail if needed to avoid them dropping out.
If only the parents would let the kid decide, like you did, that enough is enough, and trust that the kid is industrious enough to figure out for him or herself whether they ought to spend four years of their lives in college vs. the military or the peace corps or some other worthwhile activity.
But, the modern hover parents do not let their kids decide, and this causes a lot of problems, including a lot of kids staying in school that have no business being there, a lot of grade inflation as they go in and plead with the teachers to pass them, a lot of kids that are completely disinterested getting into the world with no sense of self-starting whatsoever, and a lot of other problems.... and it is more fear on the part of the parent as to how they will be regarded in the neighborhood if their kid decides to screw off college and go be a plumber someplace.....Plumber is good, by the way...
But the system as it now is has developed a permanent class of decadent youth, I am thinking boys mostly but some girls, with no motivation to do anything except sit around home and let Mom and Dad do all the work.