lulubel wrote:Hi, I'm Louise. I live in Spain, where my partner and I moved from the UK ...We don't have any children, although my partner wants them. I don't want to bring a child into the world right now, for selfish reasons as much as anything. I could say I don't want to contribute to overpopulation, or I don't want to bring a life into such an uncertain world, but to be honest I don't want the responsibility. We have 2 eleven year old cats, and my focus is on providing them with food, warmth, shelter and safety for the rest of their lives. After that, if things turn bad, I'll either get by or not, but at least I won't be responsible for taking care of anyone.
lulubel wrote:I actually don't know which way to turn at the moment.
lulubel wrote: we live in an unnecesarily big house with an unnecessary swimming pool, and use the aircon/heating an unnecessary amount of time, as well as buying food that's been shipped at least half way round the world
lulubel wrote: if selfishness is wanting to limit your family to what you stand a chance of caring for, then I'll proudly stand up and say I'm selfish.
lulubel wrote: I don't want to live in constant fear that the child I brought into the world will suffer or die because I wanted to be a mother, and there'll be nothing I can do to prevent it. It's amazing what that kind of thinking does for your desire to have a baby.
lulubel wrote: All of our income is from working over the internet in an industry that's in high demand at the moment. But if/when the internet fails, we'll have our skills and whatever money we have to survive on.
lulubel wrote:Wow! I just looked on Amazon, and that book's expensive.
lulubel wrote:Wow! I just looked on Amazon, and that book's expensive.
Cloud9 wrote:My dad built a bunker in the 1960's. He was convinced that nuclear war was on the horizon. The property has been sold and the bunker demolished.
Many of the things we worry about never happen; and if they do, they happen in ways we never expected. Yesterday is a memory. Tomorrow is a hope. Today is all there is. Enjoy that partner. Children are a blessing. If treated right, they will watch your back and care for you until you have breathed your last breath. Don't short today on the prospects of what might happen tomorrow.
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