KingM wrote:If you're prone to depression, I would highly recommend avoiding this site. It's not just PO that will do us in, it's global warming, nuclear meltdowns, ebola, solar flares, etc. This is a site where a solid chunk of the participants are convinced that billions are about to die any minute, they just don't know how it's going to go down.
You know, I actually don't worry about peak oil or climate change like that. It doesn't get me depressed or anxious.
Slow-moving doom doesn't affect me.
Sudden things, sudden sh*t hitting the fan, affects me. 9/11 was rough. I'm the kind of person that has this sense of just how things are supposed to be, a secure existential normality about the world. Then one day I'm having coffee and planes are going into buildings and the Pentagon and Bush was circling in the sky in Air Force one and it was like Defcon whatever.
I think everyone has forgotten that, but at the time, *it was just so bizarre* -- *it was the kind of thing that is only supposed to be in novels and movies* -- that it affected a lot of people. That's what's so horrible about terrorism, the unpredictability of it, it strikes at existential security about the world.
But -- there were no more attacks like that. If there had been, people can actually get used to it, as the Israelis are.
Only thing that could get me rattled and panicked is the Russia stuff, or terrorism. Things will never go that far with Putin -- Russians after all don't want to be a nervous wreck either, living on the edge.
I tend to worry about local things now, lately. My community is getting more ghetto and rough. I'm concerned about crime and crazyness and just how things are falling apart. Everyone with money has moved out in the east county, in gated communities.
And things are falling apart in the USA, and we're becoming like a Mexico, because our politics serves the rich elite and we had nobody looking out for our country as a whole -- we gave all the good wage working class jobs away, whereas a place like Germany did not do that.
We American voters are idiots. We made our bed with how we vote, and we're laying in it. It affects the rich and upper middle class too. They can get mugged too, they will have to look out their gated community walls and see poverty and crazyness, too.
Ross Perot warned everyone a long time ago. Nobody listened.
Ultimately whatever the big issue is that's beyond your control, all you can do is "get used to it," accept, and do what you can and accept what you can't do about it, look out for yourself and yours.
I never give money to street people. I did the other day, though. The poor guy was just so wretched. It was 90+ degrees out too, he was sitting there crippled on asphalt. His sign said he's a vet. I gave him five dollars. He had a bad leg and was clearly weak and limped to my truck. He actually apologized for being slow.
Then after I broke the ice and showed some kindness, a young woman in the SUV behind me came rushing out and handed him a pile of clothes.
If I had done nothing, I think the whole line of cars I was in would have just kept ignoring the guy until the light turned green.
You do have to accept things, and can't save the world or change the world, but you can do what you can, I suppose.
And then other people may notice, and do something too.