Ibon wrote:I just realized that today is 10 years since I joined this site.
It's 6+ years for me now and 9,000+ posts and my posts are LONG at that. To be honest, it freaks me out, because I've honestly NEVER been a "forum" type person and this is the only forum I've ever posted a lot on.
The only way I can explain this unusual thing in my life, this forum, and what has kept me on it -- is the people here. Everyone is just so interesting and there's so much to learn, and maybe other guys like talking about baseball or football or cars and that's what they talk about, but I like the things we talk about here. And I don't have anyone in my "real" life that likes to talk about these things.
If there ever is something "scary" going on "out there" on the national scene, some emergency or something, it's this forum I turn to and the people here. This is the doomer family, we're the kinds of people that think about things and think ahead and I'm a big blowhard but we actually have so many very smart people on the forum that know what they're talking about. If you read what everyone has to say then you get the best aggregate of what's going on about a topic. That makes this forum better than any media that's out there.
The key to it is a group of long-time contributors. Huffpost and sites like that have those as well, and they try to do things like "super users" or something to make the regulars in the comments section stand out. But there's still too many people and too big of a "forum."
This place is "just right" in size.
I just want to say though that I know I turned into a bit of a troll, and I HATE THAT, I really do. And it bothers me to be disliked by strangers on the internet. I'd rather just shut up and tell someone they are right, than be disliked. I don't like bad karma. I don't want to give anyone high blood pressure.
I'm actually a consensus seeker. I actually care more about people than being right. I think AD told me I'm "quixotic" one time, and that's a good description of what I do here, it's like a Stephen Colbert thing. I don't do it on purpose, and it's honestly meant as conversation facilitation.
I think what happened was that we lost our trolls and muckrakers. Shortonsense, etc. I think subconsciously I stepped into the vacant role around here, the button pushing and muckraking. But I'd honestly rather someone else do that, and they be disliked, and I can just be one of the ones jumping in on those threads.
I just want to say thank you to all of you who have made so many contributions to further our understanding of what is arguably the most important and dominant subject for our species in the 21 st century.
I feel the same way there, and want to thank you Ibon and everyone else on this forum. I know all this posting seems like such a waste of time, but it is a real fact that I have learned SO MUCH from this forum on multiple topics that I never would have learned about, if not for this forum and the people on it.
When we have flame wars on here, I hope everyone can just realize that people are *learning things*. If Westerners are arguing with Russians, at least they are talking to Russians and actually learning things and a deeper understanding is always a good thing. It's better than just relying on media to know about a topic.
Maybe some pro-Russia posters can't stand me, but, if not for them then all I'd know about Russia is what a John McCain has to say about it. How does this make any difference in my "real life?" Well, I actually care about Russians now. If things did get worse and sanctions are hurting people over there, I'd be thinking of our Russian forum members. You can't "go to war" with people that you like, it's impossible. A deeper understanding about Russia really will affect how I vote, if it becomes a crisis that's an issue in the next election.
So anyhow I just want to make that point about this forum, even if it SEEMS LIKE people are just on these opposite sides and everything is an argument -- speaking for myself, I really am listening to that other person and I learn a lot.
Many of my own contributions here are the result of sifting through and digesting the comments and insights of many of the posters.
Same here. I've actually soaked in others' styles and views.
As Pops mentioned we are to a degree a social media site
Yep. This forum really is a special place, it's a nice little corner of the internet.
By the way we also need to thank the owner of the site, and I respect how whoever owns it has never personally inserted themselves. That's the best way to create a social media site or forum, you build the FORUM and hand it over to the community and otherwise step out of it and stay out of it.
I guess maybe one day the lights will go out around here, but so far it has gone one while LATOC and Mike Ruppert's site -- both centered around the site owner -- collapsed. Is the oil drum still around or did that close too? Peakoil.com is still here.
I do find the social interaction here an important way for me to sometimes cope with this solitude.
You know, I think everyone is lonely. People these days are like fish that are thirsty, they're surrounded by people yet lonely for some reason.
So anyhow, I feel thankful for you too for everyone on this forum -- and personally to me, it's wild I have been talking to you all for YEARS now because that's not the norm for me, I'm not a long term forum person, I've never done anything like this. It's got to be you all's fault.
Your companionship is just too enjoyable, it's your fault.
I think we're all doomers around here and mostly introverts and we have things in common even if we disagree so much, sometimes. Every single regular on here has things in common or else they would not keep coming back and talking to each other.
P.S. We also need to thank the moderators, and Tanada, and Pops, and all the site admins before that really did such a superb job of maturely and objectively running a forum on the internet. No easy task.