This is quote 1, quote 2 will be in the next post.
You obviously don't know many extremely rich folks. During my years as a "yachtmaster' on the motor yachts, not one of my owners was much interested in the yacht as anything more than a status symbol. They were consumed by their true love, making and managing their money, to the exclusion of all else. Even in a beautiful, quiet, far from the beaten path anchorage in the Bahamas, one made himself miserable every day because he couldn't get a Wall Street Journal. He wanted me to spend 8 hours a day in the radio room getting him quarter hourly stock market updates, for crying out loud! (Not my job; hire a radio operator.) He sat around moping instead of enjoying the fruits of his labors and spending quality time w/his family, and he was not at all unique.
People w/that kinda money seem driven beyond their own control and often appear to find their only pleasure in the acquisition and management of wealth. That's fine for them, I guess, and it gave me good employment (they weren't often aboard more than a few weeks a year), but it was tough on the families it seemed, as most were many times divorced.
I don't honestly believe that we are anything like the really rich. It just isn't possible for one of us to say, "If I had that kind of money....", because we haven't invested that much of ourselves into making that kind of money, or we would have it. Not one of my former employers got rich by luck or 'being in the right place at the right time'. Every single one of them got there through hard work, long hours and dedication. And the willingness to risk absolutely everything.
I personally preferred not to spend my life chasing the almighty dollar, to the exclusion of all else.